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  • How to Graciously Decline Being a Ninang

    Is it ever okay to decline an invitation to be someone’s ninang or ninong? The fast answer is yes, you may refuse to be someone’s godparent. However, it is not that easy. If you are in the Philippines, refusing an… Continue reading

    How to Graciously Decline Being a Ninang
  • 5 Ways to Raise a Body Neutral Child

    Last week, I made a girl cry. She is so skinny – like skin and bones skinny – and she had dark circles around her eyes. I told her to eat. Her mom said she (the girl) insists of being… Continue reading

    5 Ways to Raise a Body Neutral Child
  • How to Choose Your Child’s Ninong or Ninang

    For many Filipino Roman Catholics, choosing a child’s ninong and ninang is easy. Here are the most common criteria for selecting children’s sponspors for baptism: Parent’s siblings or cousins Parent’s friends Parent’s bosses or co-workers Sometimes, status placement is also… Continue reading

    How to Choose Your Child’s Ninong or Ninang
  • 9 Ways Quitting Facebook Made Me a Better Mom

    Hi, friend! Welcome and welcome back to the blog. I deactivated on Facebook in mid-May. This was neither a quasi-experiment on how I will fare without something that has been a part of my life since 2009 nor a social… Continue reading

    9 Ways Quitting Facebook Made Me a Better Mom
  • Steps for Getting Married at St. Joseph Cathedral Parish, San Jose City (2022)

    Are you planning your Roman Catholic wedding and looking for a church? If you are from the Diocese of San Jose de Nueva Ecija, why not choose our very own Cathedral? St. Joseph Cathedral is located at Maharlika Highway, corner… Continue reading

    Steps for Getting Married at St. Joseph Cathedral Parish, San Jose City (2022)
  • 13 Quotes for Working Moms

    One place suits one person, another place suits another person. (Beatrix Potter, 1918) Hi, friend! Welcome and welcome back to the blog. I really love how The Tale of Johnny Town-Mouse, Beatrix Potter’s adaptation of Aesop’s The Town Mouse and the Country… Continue reading

    13 Quotes for Working Moms
  • Maggie O’Farrell: Hamnet (2020)

    I was never into the works of Shakespeare. Even, first, as a high school senior, when I was tasked to report on Taming of the Shrew, and later on, as a young librarian, when I was cataloging volumes after volumes… Continue reading

  • Yoko Ogawa: The Housekeeper and the Professor (2003)

    If I had known that Yoko Ogawa’s The Housekeeper and the Professor is filled with numbers and formulas, I would not have picked it up. As I mentioned in my previous review, I do not understand mathematics at all. I… Continue reading